When it comes to maintaining a healthy and happy sex life , variation is a big part of it. This is all there is? And if you're nervous about switching it up? Know that there's a position out there for you. I like to do things that give me a good jolt of adrenaline! Here are seven positions for when you feel like throwing caution to the wind and being a bit adventurous.
The 8 Best 69 Sex Positions to Try in the Bedroom Tonight
A 69 or 69ing is the act of two people simultaneously giving each other oral sex. This is one of those sex acts that miiight look better than it actually feels, TBH, mostly because it requires coordination and being able to focus on making your partner feel good while also focusing on how good they make you feel while ALSO maybe focusing on how randomly long their second toe is. But if you want to be in control, have your partner lie down on their back while you go on top, facing their feet. Then perform a fully vertical blow job or cunnilingus , which will probably feel weird. If you get tired, switch it up and let your partner take the top, but just remember, you lose a bit of the control that way and that peen can hit your gag reflex unexpectedly.
When I put out a call on Twitter and Instagram for people to slide into my DMs with their thoughts on this giving move, the opinions were even more polarizing than CrossFit or going vegan. Apparently, there are a lot of folks out there who want to yuck my yum. So I saw it, as my duty, as a sex writer 4 the internet, to correct this. I took the top seven complaints I received about 69ing to sex educators and asked them for solutions. Start with kissing, make eye contact, fondle each other, and maybe start in missionary oral before one person does a with their body.
ICYMI it spells boobs. And the truth is, the position does have a rep for being awkward on many levels. I put my what down where? I mean, hitting your own O is hard enough when it's just your partner going down on you—but when you have to take care of them simultaneously? Still, it's not a totally lost cause.